Just Be You...

So, this is a very informal post for whoever is reading...just me to you, that's all.

Just be yourself. Don't change for anyone. That's important. Now, let me add to this....

When I say stuff like this...this is what I mean...

If the things you do, don't hurt the people around you and there is no harm being caused...there's no reason to change. The second you become conscious that your actions are hurting those around you, that's when you change. That's when.

I think a lot of us lose ourselves as we watch our environment and idolize these characters... thinking that's how we should behave...thinking this is how we should act... but we never stop to think once as to what our strong qualities are....what a shame.

What a shame.

Another thing is...don't hate people around you. This is the hardest believe it or not. I, too, grow envious ... I too grow hate...I too get mad...I too am just human. The reason why I italicized it is because I wanted to emphasize to you that right now I could be one of these people...trying to influence you..trying to make you feel like you have to "be" and "act" a certain way, but you don't.

Just be you.

I am telling you this from experience. The more you pay attention to how others are behaving and the more you change yourself... by the end of it all... there will be more of "them" in you than "you" in you


hope that made sense... but stay warm (at least over here the weather has seemed to drop)... and be you

-Anita